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I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and vis


I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like to share a few based on my personal experience as part of a swirl marriage.
I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like to share a few based on my personal experience as part of a swirl marriage. I have seen swirling black women from New York City, to Indianapolis, Indiana all the way to North Pole, Alaska.  Here in Los Angeles, I see all kinds of swirls.  I have seen swirling sisters of all skin tones, shapes and sizes happily in love white, Latino, Asian and other men of various nationalities (all races).  I ain t mad at em.  I am encouraged because they are inspiration for sisters who are still searching for their own swirl loves.  I do realize that I could see the greatness for swirl-friendly communities in one area, but someone else may not see it all.  Maybe you will agree or disagree, but these cities are beautiful at any rate.  What are some of your favorite swirling air canada sell tickets cities?  If it is not happening for you in your city, are you willing to relocate to a place where your chances of finding love may be better?
swirlypirouette   There are some in the area who are decent and are not KKK related... I lived there before moving to London... but you need to keep your eyes open because the backlash can sometimes be weird from both communities. I even was a member of a local Missionary Baptist Church, between Lithonia air canada sell tickets and the airport...
I was in Houston recently and I was surprised at just how many swirling couples I saw. Though I've not yet been there, I hear that Austin is also quite swirl-friendly.Oh, and the Houston hotel I was staying in was hosting a wedding air canada sell tickets reception -- between a Sikh Indian man and his Christian African-American bride. Can't get much more swirly than that :)
SecretBlasianMan Awesome! I just wrote about Houston a bit further down. I grew up there and it always surprises me how, given the prevalence of other swirl patterns, BW in relationships with other men isn't really air canada sell tickets seen there. I was wondering what needed to change in order for that to change but it seems like things may have progressed since I was there last. :D
I live in the Fort Lauderdale area in Florida, and it is only recently that I have noticed WM with BW. In the past, when I would visit the New York metro area, I would notice more IR couples (WM+BW), than what I saw here. My sister who is married to a white gentleman met her husband while living in NJ. Having traveled quite a bit, my experience is this...go where black people are not as visibly present and typically you will find very receptive people, which typically means you find very receptive non-black men to the idea of dating you. When I lived in central Maine, I had great experiences! I stayed in northern Scotland for a month and I was quite popular. London not so much, although I did observe it. I visited Paris several years ago and the men were not shy AT ALL. Holland a great city and you would think there is a law that states two black people are not allowed to marry! Took my mother with me, and the men kept approaching her left, right and central...German men, gotta love them! Maybe I should have stayed there, I probably would have been married by now, but for now I am back home in my home territory of Florida. However, as I said previously, when we are in short supply, then whites seem more interested in dating you. Not sure if it is some type of exotic/experimentation thing...but I did have a Dutch guy tell me that "they" (and yes, he took it upon himself to talk for his countrymen) think we are just so pretty and that they love African women.
I agree with you and thanks for the positive/encouraging message. I know the German men can't seem to get enough of African American women and I think its a great thing. I too travel a lot for work also and I plan to spend quite a bit of time abroad next year.. air canada sell tickets :-)
afromedievalist  I'm going to add to the list of European countries that appreciate  women of color. 1) Greece (particularly Crete) 2) Prague (if you're in your late teens to early twenties and like the night club scene, check out Karlovy Lázně).. 3) Italy 4) South of France (Marseilles, Monacco, and Nice especially). 5) Sweden air canada sell tickets ( I can't speak for Norway since I didn't get to go) 6) Germany or Switzerland 7) Belgium.
afromedievalist  Sorry, I said Prague as if that was the country. I only stayed in that city in the Czech Republic so I can't speak for the other areas, especially the villages. When you get there though it has a very soviety feel to it. People look at you and sometimes you feel out of place, but if you're lost or in need of help the Czech people are extremely friendly and will try and help you even if it means using body language when they don't know English.
air canada sell tickets Washington DC- I was born and raised in DC.  There are generations of interracial couples and multicultural families which goes back years in DC.  Both of my parents are biracial. My grandparents raised biracial children in DC during air canada sell tickets the 30's, 40's and 50's.   Most of my friends in DC are either air canada sell tickets mixed, biracial, in interfaith unions, air canada sell tickets or in interracial relationships.
California-I love San Francisco, Los Angelos, and San Diego.  My family vacations in Southern California every other year.  We've never had problems there.  I've even considered relocating  to LA or San Diego just for the weather alone.
air canada sell tickets I also never had problems in Bonn, Cologne (Koln), Dusseldorf, and Berlin Germany as well.  Out of all the places that I'ved traveled to around the world  Germany by far has the nicest people that I've ever met.   I met lots of Turkish men in Bonn, Germany at the university who were nice too.
I live in the Washington DC metro area and agree with you that Northern Virginia is a great city for swirling.  Also see a lot of mixed couples in Charles County, Prince Georges and Montgomery County (all in Maryland).  Very multicultural area.
YAY Denver!  I am probably going to wind up in Denver or Seattle based on job offerings air canada sell tickets and my current skill set(it seems most junior programmer and entry level web developement jobs are in proximity of these two places and that is where I am sending most resumes and applications.
I lived in Takoma PArk in Maryland (right on the DC line), and I would have to agree with this assessment. I've been in San Francisco a couple of years now, and really, there's not much difference. SF has it by the barest of margins. Both great places to meet very interested white guys who are genuinely interested in you, and, (hold on to your hats, girls) want to be married as a goal of whatever serios relationship they embark upon.
I'm hoping to move after I finish my PhD program. Until then, I'm stuck in South Central Texas. That is one place I would not recommend for black women looking to swirl. San Antonio is Military City USA. It's a great place to swirl for HM/WW, HW/WM, HW/BM, and WW/BM. However, it is not a good place for black women to meet decent non-black men or even black men. Most of the men I've come across (black and non-black) either have baby mamas or are grown ass men living with family members because they can't afford to live on their own.
My attempts at swirling so far: Hispanic man in late 20s living with his grandmother and had a 3 inch penis, white man in his mid-twenties living with his mother and had teeth the color of butter, white man from Canada air canada sell tickets or Alaska who I just didn't click with, white man who turned out to be gay and lived with his parents, Hispanic man who was just looking to have sex with a black woman, white man who was just looking to have sex with a black woman and had a baby mama, a Hispanic man who smelled like fish, and a Hispanic air canada sell tickets man with a 2 inch penis and kids from a prior marriage. I also get propositioned all the time by white and Hispanic men who are twice my age. I've pretty much just given up on trying to date here.
Tammy_Ghalden  OMG I live in San Antonio too.  I completely understand your problem.  I have already started job hunting in other cities.  I've been here 10 months and it is time to go. Black women for some reason have a bad reputation in San Antonio and I do not want to be apart of it.
sassyjai02    Tammy_Ghalden  It's only 70 miles from Austin--may be worth the drive on the weekends.  I used to live there and LOVED it. It's a whole different ball of wax from the rest of the state and has lots of young, open-minded singles.  While I didn't see BW/WM couples out and about in the numbers I see them in southern California (the black population there is under 10%), the few black women I knew personally were in committed relationships with white men.
My husband and I used to reside  in Texas.   We both grew up in the northeast.  We hated Texas!  OMG!    The heat alone makes you want to hurt somebody.   I'm usually a laid back and an easy going person, but the folks in Texas irked my last nerves!     The cheaper air canada sell tickets cost of living wasn't worth it to us.  We wanted air canada sell tickets to raise our children air canada sell tickets around folks who more evolved.
Diversitymom air canada sell tickets  Yeah, education is not really valued down here. I don't really need a man with a college degree, although it's preferred, but I would like to meet someone who has some intellectual interests. The people down here love to drink, drink, and drink some more. You can tell by all of our DWI arrests and the number of people killed by drunk drivers.
I know how you feel, I live in the DFW area and its so hard to date here in this state (TX) especially if you're into IR dating, people act as if its something strange.. I'm so happy to know that you're not lowering your standards just to be with a man. I encourage you to hang in there and hopefully you'll be able to leave once you graduate.. Best wishes to you...
Tammy_Ghalden I can vouch for San Antonio as well. There are

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